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It was supposed to be just for show. Nobody told their hearts.
Fake dating gives two people permission to act like a couple before either is ready to admit they want to be one. They hold hands for the cameras, kiss in front of family, and say all the right things at a wedding — and every performance makes the private truth harder to deny. The slow burn lives in the widening gap between what they are pretending and what they are starting to feel.
The reasons vary: family pressure, a career that needs better press, an ex who needs to see them happy, a matchmaking sibling who won’t quit. The rules usually come with an end date. The best books make that deadline hurt, because by the time it arrives, the fake part is the only thing that isn’t real.
Every pick below is an actual agreed fake relationship, is romance-first, and ends in an HEA or HFN — or continues in a series we flag on the card. Pairings span M/F, F/F and M/M across contemporary, YA and historical. For fake dating with a shared bed, see Slow Burn Only-One-Bed Romance.
Quick start
Start Here: Choose Your Fake Dating Slow Burn
| If you want… | Start with… | Why it fits |
|---|---|---|
| The fake date to a family wedding | The Spanish Love Deception — Elena Armas | An office enemy, a wedding in Spain and a very long build |
| STEM grump, fake girlfriend | The Love Hypothesis — Ali Hazelwood | A PhD student kisses the wrong professor and has to keep pretending |
| Sapphic fake dating for the holidays | Written in the Stars — Alexandria Bellefleur | An astrologer and an actuary fake it until New Year’s Eve |
| Sapphic Hollywood fauxmance | Breaking Character — Lee Winter | A closeted British star asks her co-star to play her girlfriend |
| M/M fake boyfriend for good press | Boyfriend Material — Alexis Hall | A tabloid-plagued mess and a buttoned-up barrister |
| Best friends faking it | The Cheat Sheet — Sarah Adams | A viral moment forces two best friends into a public relationship |
| YA, sweet and nostalgic | To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before — Jenny Han | Secret love letters get sent, and a fake relationship covers the fallout |
| Historical fake courtship | The Duke and I — Julia Quinn | A duke and a debutante pretend to court to keep the ton off their backs |
Why Fake Dating Makes a Great Slow Burn
Fake dating hands the characters a script. They know how to hold hands, what to say to each other’s parents, when to kiss. What they don’t have a script for is the moment when a performance stops being a performance — and that uncertainty is what drives the slow burn.
The arrangement also protects them. As long as it is fake, neither has to risk rejection. That safety lets intimacy grow faster than either would allow in a real relationship, and makes the eventual confession more dangerous: admitting it is real means admitting they have been lying, at least to themselves.
The best books give both characters a reason for the deal that matters, an end date that looms, and a moment where someone forgets they are pretending. Each card below names the reason for the fake relationship so you can pick your flavour.
The Best Fake Dating Setups
| Setup | Why it works | Try |
|---|---|---|
| Family wedding or event | Relatives watch everything, so the act has to be flawless | The Spanish Love Deception; Change of Heart; Written in the Stars |
| PR and careers | Fame demands a love story, so they manufacture one | Breaking Character; In Development; How to Fake It in Hollywood; Boyfriend Material |
| Viral moment | The internet decides they are a couple before they do | Take a Hint, Dani Brown; The Cheat Sheet |
| Making an ex jealous | The plan is about someone else — until it isn’t | Funny Story; She Drives Me Crazy |
| Best friends pretending | They already know each other perfectly, which makes faking it dangerous | Lovelight Farms; The Cheat Sheet |
| Workplace or academia | Colleagues and careers raise the stakes on getting caught | The Love Hypothesis; The Ex Talk; Just for Show |
| Fake courtship | Society’s rules make a pretend romance the safest option | The Duke and I; Red, White & Royal Blue |
The list
Our Slow Burn Fake Dating Picks
1. The Spanish Love Deception — Elena Armas
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: office rivals, fake boyfriend, family wedding in Spain
Catalina Martín has told her family she is bringing her boyfriend to her sister’s wedding in Spain. She doesn’t have one. The only volunteer is Aaron Blackford, the colleague she can’t stand. A long, deliberate build with late, on-page heat.
2. The Love Hypothesis — Ali Hazelwood
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: STEM academia, fake girlfriend, grumpy/sunshine
To convince her best friend she has moved on, PhD student Olive Smith kisses the first man she sees — notoriously harsh professor Adam Carlsen — and he agrees to keep pretending. Content note: sexual harassment by a secondary character.
3. Take a Hint, Dani Brown — Talia Hibbert
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: viral video, security guard and academic, fake dating
When a video of security guard Zafir Ansari carrying PhD student Dani Brown out of a fire drill goes viral, Zaf asks her to fake a relationship to promote his charity. Dani wants no feelings; Zaf is a romantic. Content notes: grief, anxiety.
4. The Cheat Sheet — Sarah Adams
Burn: Slow · Heat: Closed door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: best friends, football star, viral moment
Former ballerina Bree and NFL quarterback Nathan have been best friends for years. A live-TV slip turns them into a public couple overnight, and Nathan has his own reasons for not correcting it. Sweet and low-angst.
5. Lovelight Farms — B.K. Borison
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: best friends, fake boyfriend, Christmas tree farm
To win a contest that could save her Christmas tree farm, Stella needs a boyfriend. Her best friend Luka volunteers. A cozy small-town holiday setting with real heat late in the book.
6. Funny Story — Emily Henry
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: making exes jealous, roommates, opposites
Daphne’s fiancé left her for his best friend Petra; Miles is Petra’s ex. Stuck as roommates in a small lake town, they start posting photos of a fake summer romance to make their exes jealous. Warm, funny and quietly sad.
7. How to Fake It in Hollywood — Ava Wilder
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HFN
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: PR relationship, actors, publicist’s deal
Actress Grey Brooks needs a higher profile; reclusive star Ethan Atkins needs a better reputation. Their publicist arranges a six-month public romance. Content notes: alcoholism, grief, media intrusion.
8. The Ex Talk — Rachel Lynn Solomon
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/F · Tropes: fake exes, public radio, coworkers who clash
Public radio producer Shay Goldstein and new reporter Dominic Yun can’t stand each other — so the station pitches a show where they pretend to be exes giving dating advice. Content note: grief over a parent.
9. To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before — Jenny Han
Burn: Slow · Heat: Sweet · Ending: Trilogy — HFN by book 3
Type: YA contemporary · M/F · Tropes: secret love letters, fake relationship, high school
When Lara Jean Covey’s secret love letters are mailed to every boy she has ever had a crush on, she starts a fake relationship with Peter Kavinsky to cover the fallout. Sweet, funny and family-centred.
10. The Duke and I — Julia Quinn
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Historical · M/F · Tropes: fake courtship, best friend’s sister, Regency society
Simon Basset, Duke of Hastings, wants to avoid marriage-minded mothers; Daphne Bridgerton wants more interesting suitors. They pretend to court. Content notes: childhood abuse, and a consent violation by the heroine that some readers find hard.
11. Written in the Stars — Alexandria Bellefleur
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · F/F · Tropes: fake dating through the holidays, astrology, opposites
After a disastrous blind date, actuary Darcy Lowell lies to her matchmaking brother that it went well. Astrologer Elle Jones agrees to keep up the act until New Year’s Eve in exchange for help with her own family. Grumpy/sunshine.
12. Breaking Character — Lee Winter
Burn: Slow · Heat: Explicit · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · F/F · Tropes: Hollywood, closeted actress, co-stars
When the press assumes British star Elizabeth Thornton and her co-star Summer Hayes are a couple, Elizabeth asks Summer to keep up the act to land a dream role with a French director. Summer may already have real feelings. Age gap, grumpy/sunshine.
13. In Development — Rachel Spangler
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · F/F · Tropes: fauxmance, actress and pop star, career PR
Actress Cobie wants an edgier image to win a dramatic role; pop star Lila needs something new to keep the public interested. A fake romance solves both problems — as long as neither falls for real.
14. Just for Show — Jae
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · F/F · Tropes: fake girlfriend, psychologist and actress, opposites
When her engagement ends, couples therapist Claire Renshaw needs a fake fiancée to protect her book deal. Messy barista and aspiring actress Lana Henderson takes the role. Content note: flashbacks to a car accident.
15. Change of Heart — Clare Lydon
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · F/F · Tropes: hired fake date, family anniversary, Scottish Highlands
Erin Stewart hires professional actor Steph Mitchell to pose as her girlfriend for five days at her parents’ anniversary celebration in the Scottish Highlands. Family drama and very real chemistry follow. Content notes: a sister’s death and organ transplant recounted.
16. How to Find a Princess — Alyssa Cole
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · F/F · Tropes: lost princess, investigator, fake relationship on the road
Makeda has just lost her job and her girlfriend when investigator Beznaria insists she is the lost heir to a small kingdom. Their trip comes with a cover story — a fake relationship — and only one bed. Content note: anxiety.
17. She Drives Me Crazy — Kelly Quindlen
Burn: Slow · Heat: Sweet · Ending: HFN
Type: YA contemporary · F/F · Tropes: making an ex jealous, basketball player and cheer captain
After a car accident forces them to carpool, basketball player Scottie Zajac and cheer captain Irene Abraham strike a deal: fake dating to make Scottie’s ex jealous. Then the feelings get real. Content note: coming out.
18. Boyfriend Material — Alexis Hall
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door (mild) · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/M · Tropes: fake boyfriend for PR, opposites, London
Luc O’Donnell, the tabloid-plagued son of rock stars, needs a respectable boyfriend to save his job at a dung-beetle charity. Barrister Oliver Blackwood needs a date to his parents’ anniversary. Very funny. Content note: an absent, famous parent.
19. Red, White & Royal Blue — Casey McQuiston
Burn: Slow · Heat: Open door · Ending: HEA
Type: Contemporary · M/M · Tropes: fake friendship for PR, First Son and prince, politics
After a very public incident with a royal wedding cake, Alex Claremont-Diaz and Prince Henry are ordered to fake a friendship for the press. The staged closeness becomes something neither can afford.
20. Fake Dates and Mooncakes — Sher Lee
Burn: Slow · Heat: Sweet · Ending: HFN
Type: YA contemporary · M/M · Tropes: fake date to a family wedding, rich boy and takeout cook
Dylan helps run his aunt’s Chinese-Singaporean takeout in New York. Theo, from an ultra-wealthy family, needs a date to his cousin’s wedding. A fake arrangement turns into something real. Lots of food.
How to Choose a Fake Dating Slow Burn
| If you are craving… | Choose… | Avoid if… |
|---|---|---|
| Laugh-out-loud comedy | Boyfriend Material; The Love Hypothesis; Written in the Stars | You want serious emotional stakes |
| Hollywood and PR | Breaking Character; In Development; How to Fake It in Hollywood | Media intrusion or addiction plots are hard for you |
| Sweet or closed door | The Cheat Sheet; To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before; Fake Dates and Mooncakes | You want on-page intimacy |
| Explicit heat | The Spanish Love Deception; Take a Hint, Dani Brown; Breaking Character | You prefer the door closed |
| Sapphic fake dating | Written in the Stars; Change of Heart; Just for Show | You want YA (try She Drives Me Crazy) |
| M/M fake dating | Boyfriend Material; Red, White & Royal Blue; Fake Dates and Mooncakes | You want explicit scenes |
| Holiday fake dating | Written in the Stars; Lovelight Farms | You want a summer read |
Frequently Asked Questions
What is fake dating romance?
Two people agree to pretend to be a couple — for family, a career, an event or an ex — and develop real feelings while keeping up the act. The tension comes from the gap between the performance and the truth.
Is fake dating always a slow burn?
Not always, but it suits slow burn well. The arrangement lets the characters act close without admitting anything, so the real confession can be delayed for a long time. Every book here takes that slow route.
What is the best fake dating book to start with?
The Love Hypothesis or The Spanish Love Deception for contemporary, Written in the Stars for sapphic, Boyfriend Material for M/M, and The Duke and I for historical.
Are there sapphic fake dating books?
Yes: Written in the Stars, Breaking Character, In Development, Just for Show, Change of Heart, How to Find a Princess and She Drives Me Crazy. See our Slow Burn Sapphic Romance guide, or browse full sapphic reviews at Lesbian Romance Reads.
Are there M/M fake dating books?
Boyfriend Material, Red, White & Royal Blue (a fake friendship) and the YA Fake Dates and Mooncakes.
Are there YA fake dating books?
To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, She Drives Me Crazy and Fake Dates and Mooncakes are all YA and low-heat.
What about fake dating with best friends?
The Cheat Sheet and Lovelight Farms both start with best friends. For more, see Slow Burn Friends-to-Lovers Romance.
What about fake dating with an enemy?
The Spanish Love Deception, The Ex Talk and Red, White & Royal Blue pair the fake relationship with real hostility. See Slow Burn Enemies-to-Lovers Romance.
Which fake dating books have only one bed?
The Spanish Love Deception, The Love Hypothesis and How to Find a Princess all include it. See Slow Burn Only-One-Bed Romance.
Do these books end happily?
Each ends in an HEA or HFN. To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before resolves across a trilogy, and the YA picks end HFN. For guaranteed standalone endings, see Slow Burn Romance With HEA.
Explore Related Slow Burn Categories
- Slow Burn Only-One-Bed Romance
- Slow Burn Forced Proximity Romance
- Slow Burn Enemies-to-Lovers Romance
- Slow Burn Friends-to-Lovers Romance
- Slow Burn Sapphic Romance
- Slow Burn Romance With HEA
- Slow Burn Contemporary Romance
- Slow Burn Workplace Romance
- Slow Burn Marriage-of-Convenience Romance
- Slow Burn Celebrity Romance
How We Label Books
Burn speed, heat and ending are separate labels. Burn speed describes how long the relationship takes to resolve (gentle, slow, very slow or series-long); heat describes on-page intimacy (sweet, closed door, open door, explicit); ending distinguishes HEA, HFN and series outcomes.